Learn How to Squirt: Female Ejaculation for Beginners

Whether you’re using toys or fingers, getting creative and trying new things can be key to enjoying yourself. However, it’s important to note that research on masturbation tends to be limited. So it’s understandable that you may feel confused about what to do when it comes to the big ‘M’ or the big ‘O’, let alone how to incorporate sex toys.

It’s true that the urge to pee can be pretty intense as you get closer to climax. You need to allow yourself to go past that point, though, to experience squirting and its pleasures. A common complaint from women who are learning how to squirt is that the urge to pee is too intense to overcome. This causes many women to stop prematurely for fear of wetting the bed. For that, we’ll also consider how squirting differs from female ejaculation which is another urethra-involved activity. If you are with a male who is either using his fingers or a vibrator/dildo, remind them (and if you are a dude reading this, keep in mind), they don’t have to go at it like an Olympic athlete.

So, you can get some sex toys that will spice things up in your bedroom. Now, after inserting your fingers, apply a little bit of pressure around the upper part of the vagina (closer to her stomach) with your thumb or any other finger that you are comfortable with. Its place will be between one to three inches from the vagina and this measurement might differ depending on the woman. Look, finding the G-spot is one of the toughest things for men or even women.

Now clitoral orgasms are stimulated by… you guessed it… the clit. Seen as though it’s so sensitive, the clit doesn’t need much stimulation in order for it to make your lady blow. The origin of both squirting and ejaculation fluids are from the Skene’s glands. These are glands found on both sides of the urethra. In this post, we’ll explore what squirting is and how it differs from female ejaculation.

What squirts out has never been yellow, has no urine-like smell, and has no urine-like taste; it actually tastes a little sweet (yeah, I did that). To be completely honest, I don’t believe it to be urine, but the scientific evidence remains inconclusive. An ‘expulsion of fluid’ is a fancy way of saying ‘squirts’ how to make a women squirt, and I am sure you have seen it at some point in those adult movies you peruse on that website that rhymes with fornhub. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the lands where we live, learn and work.

The Butterfly sex position creates an optimal angle for G-spot and A-spot stimulation while giving you full control over depth and speed. Her elevated hips keep the focus on her pleasure zones without overstimulation. Remember, the point isn’t to rush—it’s to create a relationship dynamic where she feels comfortable communicating her needs and desires. To do this technique, you’ll need to keep your fingers in place, with the tips pressed against her G-spot. Once you’re all set, lightly raise your arm up then lower it down. Continue raising and lowering your arm and increase the pressure if needed.