How to Use a Vibrator: Tips From Sex and Wellness Experts

It comes with a one-year warranty, plus a 10-year guarantee that allows you to purchase a replacement model for 50% of the original price should your toy break in the decade following the initial year of coverage. With eight vibration settings, this stimulation can range from gentle to extremely intense, and a little goes a long way. It’s also a good toy to use in tandem with penetrative intercourse—it is small and easy for either partner to hold and position. We found that it lasted three and a half hours at maximum speed, spread out over a series of 20-minute intervals; it may last longer at lower speeds. If it runs out of power, you can connect it to the removable AC cord and continue using it. Dealbreakers included poor-quality materials, a short battery life, a tendency to break easily, a lack of power, and a design that was awkward, inconvenient, or painful to use.

The basic dildo is a penis-shaped toy that can be inserted into the vagina or anus. Some have suction bases that provide stability, some are double-ended, and some are designed to pair with strap-on harnesses for hands-free vaginal and anal penetration with a partner. Many strap-on sets are sold with dildos included, which is a cost-effective option for beginners looking to try both. Double-check that a dildo is anal-safe before you sit on it, as not all of them are. Anal toys include butt plugs, anal beads, prostate massagers, and some dildos.

This rabbit vibrator has an adjustable external arm that moves with you for clitoral stimulation while the curved shaft of the internal arm stimulates the G-spot. Both arms can be controlled independently so you can enjoy different speeds and vibration modes. There is also an app so you can hook up multiple toys and your partner can operate no matter how far away they are. Not all wand vibrators are created equal, according to Stephanie Hack, MD, founder of women’s health platform, Lady Parts Doctor, who has a list of criteria your sex toys should meet before you shell out your hard-earned cash.

If you’ve ever masturbated or had sex, think about what really gets you going. “For anyone who enjoys backdoor play, it’s hard to beat glass butt plugs,” Trip Richards, a sex educator and porn performer, says. The looped handle on this one makes it much easier to insert and remove, even with lubed fingers, and the plug itself is shaped perfectly to nestle into the prostate. The battery lasts for a long time, and it seems to charge pretty fast.

Like our winning vibrator, this beginner-friendly vibe has a 2-in-1 design, incorporating both a clitoral and G-spot stimulator. Here at the Good Housekeeping Institute, we’ve tested hundreds of the best vibrators over the years, and there really is a sex toy out there for everyone. As a sex educator and coach, I can personally attest that people are still intimidated by them, however much we tout the dogma of the sacred vibrator. Meet the Puff Compact Suction Vibrator, Unbound’s best-selling suction toy. Compact and easy-to-use, Puff is the perfect partner for all your orgasmic adventures.

Richards likes that there’s a small end and a larger end , so you can experiment with different sensations. This sculptural, ultra-elegant rabbit vibrator looks like it belongs in an art museum, but trust me, you’ll want to keep it very close to home. It’s crafted from premium silicone, boasts multiple vibration patterns, and is designed with an ergonomic curve that knows exactly where to go. Say no more, because Lovehoney’s massive stock of sexually gratifying products is here to satisfy you.

The We-Vibe Moxie is a small but mighty clitoral vibrator that can be worn underneath your clothes. Moxie gives you a discreet yet powerful way to get off, no matter where you are. This rotating vibrator offers a whirling sensation precisely for G-spot stimulation, and with SenseMotion™ technology, you can control the movements with just a flick of the wrist. Melt is waterproof for underwater fun, and with 2 hours of continuous play, you might just have to call in sick to work tomorrow. With up to 2 hours of continuous use, this vibe will make you feel like the goddess you are.

Cleaning is especially important when you have used your vibrator with a partner, or when it may have touched your anus. It’s also important to read the directions of the vibrator before using it. Don’t insert vibrators anally if the vibrator is not meant for anal insertion. Vibrators may also be helpful for people who have low libido (“sex drive”), anorgasmia (a condition where a person cannot reach orgasm), motor or sensory disabilities, or conditions that prevent vaginal penetration.

And it achieved a higher score from our panel of testers this time round, so it’s clear the upgrade has paid off. Thanks to its warming effect, this toy left our panel feeling hot – in all the right ways. Able to heat up or cool down, from the inside out vibrators, it’s perfect for those who enjoy temperature play. If you’re using a vibrator for the first time, start by placing it on your clitoris with light pressure. It’s important to make sure that the lube is compatible with your toy. Some vibrators plug into the wall, while others are battery-operated.