Dildos: Usage Double Ended Dildos, Types, and Safety Tips

Most of the dildos on our list are curved, and these are typically the default options. Usually, one shape will conform to most people’s bodies, but there may be exceptions. Check out the large vibrator users guide with tips on how to safely insert a dildo with a thick shaft. This is the best piece of advice for using a rabbit vibrator in a house with other residents is to bring it in the shower with you.

Realistic balls add to the visual appeal and a suction cup makes it harness compatible for hands free play while deviating from the appearance of a real penis. Metal dildos made from stainless steel are also body-safe and easy to clean. They tend to be heavier than dildos made from other materials, which makes them a better choice if you enjoy more intense stimulation. Similar to glass, metal dildos don’t flex, so they might be less comfortable for some people.

The Dulce is available in 5 flesh tones, which is more than the standard three ‘light, medium, and dark’ from most realistic dildo makers. From the makers of the RealDoll, the RealCock 2 collection has taken every possible step to ensure the most highly realistic dildo available on the market. They’re pretty realistic in looks, and the firmer silicone has some upsides depending on how you plan to use it. They do come in some bright colors, along with a couple of realistic enough flesh tones. And the texturing is very realistic on the head, shaft, and balls even if the colors aren’t 100% authentic.

You can use a dildo in any way that brings you or your partner(s) pleasure—including externally, says Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D., host of the SexWithDrJess Podcast and expert with Lovehoney. “You might slather it in lube and roll it across your lower back and thighs, or even use it as part of external temperature play,” she says. “Dildos can be an extremely fun addition to solo, partnered , or multi-partnered play, no matter the gender, sex, or sexual orientation of the person or people involved.” Mayla Green has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2004. Working behind the motto “Sex TOYS should be FUN”, Mayla provides unique tips & advice amassed from over a decade of hands on experience with adult products.

A double strap-on can be a great way of ensuring mutual pleasure. Njoy makes a handful of stainless steel toys designed for simple performance and durability. The Pure Wand is likely Njoy’s most iconic offering, with a curved shape that lends toward G- and P-spot stimulation. And because all of its products are made of stainless steel, there are no limitations on which lubricants you can use (oil- and silicone-based lube can damage silicone).